Currently, men do everything considered manly, and try to avoid anything they believe a woman should be doing.
The palette of available things on offer is clearly aimed at this split idea so we only play into its hands, but it also reflects how tied in we are to it.
A man, upon receiving a choice, or needing to exercise so-called free-will, applies the various life philosophies he has picked up over a time of self-study to the situation, allows his own problem solving faculties to come to self-less solutions and executes that idea if the need still arises.
He doesn’t respond to his first instinct to punch or argue with everything he conflicts with.
Alone - All One 